I Hate That Part

Sexy Studs check came yesterday and I HATE having to go to the bank and depositing it. While I'm sure you all think I'm out of my mind let me just give you a sample of the crap I have to go through each month.

First there is the " Is he here to sign it?" Ummmm No do you people here ever pay attention or remember anything? He works in Arkansas & I live here, they told us over a year ago all I had to do was sign the back with FOR DEPOSIT ONLY and everything would be fine. Can you people PLEASE put that note on our account already!

Then it's the WOW what does he do for a living look. He gets paid once a month, he a contract employee ........ Ya know all those taxes and other deductions they take out of your check? Well guess what when your a contract employee more often then not they don't take those out of your check, so WE have to pay them. Would you like that bill???? Didn't think so, lets move along already.

Now we move onto the " This is over our drawer, I need to have my manger OK this" Yes, I know I've been doing this for OVER a year now...... You go do your thing and I'll just stand here playing with the chain on the pen.

But my favorite is " We may need to put a hold on this" Ummmmm..... See that little notation on our accounts? That's a lovely letter from the PRESIDENT of your bank letting you know that you WILL NOT PUT A HOLD ON THESE CHECKS! Have any of you ever read that?!

UGH! I wish he could get direct deposit so I wouldn't have to go through this ever f-ing month.

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Random Vents

Abstract Art Made With One Of My Photos

FedEx person I know you have know way of knowing that Sexy Studs paycheck was in the package you delivered, but do you think you could at least ring the doorbell so I know it's here?

I know the school system uses a cell blocker , but do they have to block even the parking lot?

Hello choir teachers we came to listen to our children sing not listen to you talk about why you picked the songs, why the songs were written, or the countless other bits of information you seem to think we want to know about.

Hello Sexy Stud's boss I know he's down there alone but does he always have to be the one who takes the business men out to dinner? I would like to be able to talk to him in the evenings from time to time.

Why must huge, nasty storms always come through just when I'm trying to go to sleep?

There I feel better now.

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The Husband- A Rant

When the husband first took this job a year ago, the posts on my blog were pretty much me whining about how much it all sucked. After awhile I picked myself up and started living again. Since I was in a better place ,I went back and deleted all of my whining posts, mostly because just knowing they were there made me depressed. Many would of just left them, as a way of remembering how far they've come, me I had to get those suckers out of there.

Over the past year I've never really publicly ranted about the husband. When I do need to rant, I head straight to the phone and call my best friend. I rant to her for many reasons, the main one being that she just listens because she knows I just need to get it out.

So here I am standing on my soap box and I'm going to rant about the husband.

If you've read my blog you know that he came home this past weekend for an unexpected visit. With March being very busy for him, he just doesn't think he will be able to come home at that month. So having him come home for the weekend was such a surprise. On Saturday I already had a pre-planned baby shower, which I was taking the girls to. That was all good since it gave him time to spend with the boys. That evening him & I spent the evening watching TV together.

The next morning I get up around 8:00 and he's still asleep, no big deal he's put in some really long hours so I knew he was tired. He got up around 11:30, we have a little small talk and he heads straight for his favorite couch. Which only means one thing...... it's nap time. Yes folks, he was only up maybe 15 minutes and he fell asleep! So there I sat all day long listening to him snore in the other room. Around 5:00 he wakes up and comes into the room I was in and lays on yet another couch. I swear if it wasn't for friends coming over to see him that night he would of fallen asleep again.

Now when he's home for a week this would of not bothered me as much. But because he was only home for the weekend and he won't be home for a month ( could be longer) this down right pissed me off. I mean come on you know your not going to see your family for a month and you spend the entire day sleeping?

UGH! MEN!

So what about you, do you have a rant today?

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